Category: Spirituality/Personality

Great things happen within us

“If an egg is broken by outside force, life ends, if broken by inside force, life begins. Great things always begin from inside.”

This quote was very insightful for me. Many of us would have broken eggs for our breakfast, many times. We may have enjoyed an omelette but never thought about our action of breaking an egg from outside and thereby preventing a life to begin.

Every change in an individual or society ,begins from a realisation, from within. Imagine a dacoit, who has killed thousands of ordinary people for years. One day, she realises that it is not fair to kill people ,to make a living, when she loses her mother by an irresponsible act of someone. This insight comes within her and she surrenders to the police and leads a normal life, trying to serve the community thereafter, in whatever ways she can.

The freedom movement in India ,may have germinated ,in the minds and hearts ,of some freedom fighters. They thought it was possible and went ahead to challenge the British and win freedom for the country. This proves, that sometimes, enlightenment could be from within an individual and sometimes it could also be ,from a group of people.

In both these incidents, the awakening came from within and not from outside ,just like an egg breaking from within gives life to a chick and not the other way around.

One of the things, which many thinkers recommend is that, we should spend some quiet time, every day. If we close our eyes and think for ourselves in a blank state , We may get thoughts and ideas from nowhere and there could be some “aha” moments in our lives. This we need to experience, to believe.

Even when a popular leader is suffering from a terminal disease, we have heard of miracles, when mass prayers have healed the leader. The power from within us is more powerful than all external powers put together.

When we speak to a tree to bear fruit, since it has not borne fruit for long and we state we will NOT look after her expressing our anguish, it flowers and bears fruits! This may look amusing but it is true that humans do speak to trees and they respond.

We have also heard of mass prayers in almost all religious groups, when tragedy strikes a community. It could be a plane crash or an earthquake, when groups of people pray together for a common cause, the suffering people, feel better and recover faster.

I have seen a Labrador dog sensing her master’s distress ,without a word being spoken between them. This is the inner voice, which we are speaking and could be very powerful.

We need to remember that the force within us is more powerful than all forces outside us. Generally, We tend to focus on outside influencers and thereby blame others ,for our failures. If we focus within us, we may be able to take full control of our lives and make things happen.

Let us learn to look within us.

S Ramesh Shankar

22nd June 2025

Memory

Everything in life ,becomes a memory ,over time. Our childhood is memory today and so is our youth and for many of us ,our adulthood and work life. It is a fact that ,everything in life ,has a shelf life. Just like every product has a life and the expiry date is generally printed on the product packing itself, so are our life spans.

What is alive and real in front of us today, becomes a memory sooner than later. We cannot stop this aspect of life. However, what is in our hands ,is what we do ,so that our memories are cherished by us and others ,in our lives.

If we were a good student and did well in academics, sports or cultural activities, we may be remembered for our accomplishments ,in whatever field we excelled. If we were a well behaved child and disciplined, people will remember us as a role model ,for other kids.

On the other hand, if we were known for our antics and misconducts, we may leave back a negative foot print , for future generations. So, it is a reality ,that our memories are not built on air. Our memories are frozen through our actions of today ,for future generations ,to recall and remember us.

If we do well and behave well, people remember us for our success and our kindness. If we squander our lives and ruin the lives of well wishers, not many would like to recall, what we did in our past. Our actions will always sketch our memories and not our imagination.

Let us realise today ,that what we do today ,is what people will remember as memory, in the future. We may have committed many mistakes in our lives, as all of us are human. But ,we have an opportunity every day in our lives ,to rewrite history or if I may say, create memories for the future.

We have heard of transformed dacoits, who turned a new leaf and led a life of virtues. We have heard of academically poor students, who have become successful in life ,through their hard work and focus, to achieve whatever they wanted ,in their lives. We have heard of successful sports persons, who have not even completed their schooling ,but have become world champions ,in their respective sports.

We need to decide ,what memories we want to leave for our children and future generations. What we do today ,is the mirror of our future for the next generation. We need not spend much time regretting any past actions, which we are not proud of. But, we have an opportunity at any stage of our life to create memories for the future ,through great deeds today.

Let not the past, colour our future. Let the past be learning -lights ,for the present and guiding compasses ,for the future. Our actions are in our hands and we cannot blame the environment or our family, friends or colleagues for them. If we succeed, we can take the credit and if we fail, the responsibility is squarely ours.

So, let the journey of creating memories for the future ,start today with our actions.

S Ramesh Shankar

31st May 2025

Liberalism of Hinduism

I am a born Hindu and am proud to be one ,always. In my personal view, Hinduism is one of the few religions in the world, which is very liberal and open ,in its thinking and preachings.

Since my birth, I have never been forced to follow any rituals. We have never been ordained to visit a temple nor offer our prayers in a particular way. Of course, like all other religions, Hinduism also has a rich history of written and unwritten scriptures like Vedas and Upanishads but nothing is imposed on us ,as individuals ,by our parents or elders.

We have full freedom to follow any prescriptions or define our own way to God . this is the best part I love about our religion. We have never been restricted to visit other religious places or even follow the good things of other religions, as Hinduism believes, in letter and spirit, that all religions are different pathways ,to the same destination – God.

A prayer, which I offer in the morning ,after I get up and at night ,before I sleep, simply translated states, –

“ May all sentient beings be at peace,
may no one suffer from illness,
May all see what is auspicious, may no one suffer.
Om peace, peace, peace”

It transcends religions, nations and all boundaries, which human beings have defined for themselves.

This month I undertook a long spiritual yatra ( journey), which we commonly call “Gaya shradham” in Hinduism. In this journey, we start at Rameshwaram in Tamil Nadu, India where we do a ceremony for our forefathers on the sea shore and collect sand and take it Prayagraj, Uttar Pradesh, and immerse it at Triveni Sangam, the confluence of Ganga, Yamuna and Saraswati rivers.

We then perform rituals at Prayagraj and collect water from Triveni sangam. After completing our rituals at Prayagraj, we go to Varnasi and do ceremonies at five banks of the Ganges river, considered the holiest river ,according to Hinduism in India.

Then, we proceed to Gaya and do “Pinda dana” or donating rice balls as offerings to our forefathers. The interesting aspect of these offerings is that we offer to our parents, if dead, forefathers, relatives, friends and even enemies, teachers, Gurus, known and unknown people and even animals and other living beings who have died and been known to us.

Finally, we return to Rameshwaram with the sacred water from Triveni Sangam and do abhishekam ( holy bath ) of Lord Shiva at Rameshwaram, followed by some rituals ,to end this journey.

It is believed that all departed souls may get “Moksha” or salvation, if we pray for them this way. What I loved about these rituals is that it does not discriminate between humans and other living beings and goes beyond religion, colour, caste or faith.

In spirit, Hinduism embraces all religions as different pathways to God. The routes may be different but the core belief is that the destination is the same for all of us. The basic values of respecting parents, teachers, Gurus, friends, elders etc. is enshrined in the Hindu faith.

Dr Radhakrishnan, former President of India and one of India’s greatest philosophers wrote a book called – The Hindu way of life “. It beautifully explains how Hinduism is a way of life and not a religion, per se. Of course, there could be fanatics in each religion, who tend to interpret religion in a narrow way and mislead millions of followers. But a true Hindu will always respect all religions and enable co-existence with these basic human values.

Long live the liberal Hinduism.

S Ramesh Shankar

25th March 2025.