Many of us struggle on what to depend upon – heart or mind – to decide everything in life. This is a genuine dilemma and most of us may have gone through it ,in some stage of our life. While heart tells us what we are passionate about, mind analyses it logically ,if we are capable of doing it.

In my book, we need to decide from our heart and plan to execute it from our mind. Many of us tend to wish through our heart and just dream about it. So, it invariably ends up as an unaccomplished dream in our life.

All of us have dreams and passions in our lives. It takes time to identify, what we really enjoy in life and that is absolutely normal. It is fine to change your mind and change it any number of times ,till you find your calling—Something, which fascinates you and keeps you awake at night too.

We all come from different economic backgrounds and it is possible that we cannot follow our heart ,till we reach a stage, where we can afford to do it. Let me illustrate this with an example. I have been passionate about driving and going on long drives. I started my career in 1981 and bought my first car in 1987 and but it took almost ten years for me, to undertake my first long drive with my family.

My financial status and family conditions ,did not permit me to spend money on this passion ,till I reached a reasonable financial stability. I never looked back after that. I could afford to drive different cars and go for long drives with family and friends, across the country in different cities ,I lived thereafter. Even today, I go on a drive once in a few months and enjoy it.

We need not feel bad that we are not able to pursue our passion at a particular point of time ,for reasons beyond our control. Everything in life has a time and place to become a reality and we need to evolve the patience and perseverance, to wait for the opportune time.

Let me give you another example ,from my personal life. I always was passionate about writing. I used to write articles for my school and college magazine and many a time ,for our company newsletters. But I could pursue writing as a passion and publish books only since 2016. This was more than three decades after I started my career.

We need to find ways and means to discover and rediscover our passions in life. It may take some time and we need to be patient ,to make it a reality. Although, we may dream about our passion, it becomes a reality only when we apply our mind and plan for it in our lives.

A dream remains a dream ,unless we systematically plan for it and make it a reality ,through diligent execution. I had a dream to go to the Kumbh for many decades but made it a reality this year ,through systematic planning and seamless execution. So, anything, we dream through our hearts ,can become a reality ,if we are willing to toil to make it happen and work hard through our mind ,to make the impossible, possible.

Let our hearts continue to dream but our mind should convert those dreams into realities through planning.

Let us begin today as it is never too late.

S Ramesh Shankar

5th Feb 2025