We thenproceed for our daily walk in the park. We are lucky to just cross our road and there is this beautiful green park along the Arabian Sea. We go around the garden for about four rounds and use this opportunity to chat about all our family members and their well being. We are greeted by the melodies of the birds and the soothing music of the sea waves. We also have interesting exchanges of men and women we meet in the park and have given them nick names to identify them.
On alternate weeks, we go for an Ayurvedic massage to tone up our body muscles and detoxify ourselves after a long working week behind us. We go together for this too and have been doing so for more than a decade now.
We then return home and do our routine yoga for about half an hour. This is followed by a simple vegetarian breakfast like idli or poha and reading the morning newspaper at leisure. We exchange news items we have read and share common interests we have in the city or around the world. Then it is time to attend to household chores. It is interesting that the division of work between me and my spouse has been quite clear and consistent since the time we got married 33 years ago. I take care of all the household chores outside the house like shopping for provisions, vegetables or repair of household goods etc. My wife takes care of all issues at home. Of course we are happy to help each other in case the need arises like the sudden leave of the house hold maid etc. We have always respected each others’ likes and dislikes and hence supported accordingly. For eg, my spouse does not enjoy driving and hence I drive always. On the other hand, I do not enjoy cooking and hence she does it. Of course, if there is a need we are willing to support each other in these chores as well.
On some days, we go for a day trip organised by the Bombay Natural History Society (BNHS) or indulge in writing poetry or blogs as both of us have our own individual hobbies. A visit to a nature park is of common interest. We love to admire birds, trees and animals and follow the experts of the BNHS quite regularly whenever time permits. Alternatively, we indulge in writing as our passion dictates us. We also help each other as editors and critiques of whatever we write.
It is also true that I love to go for a weekend trip whenever I can, to be with nature as in the photoabove near Tarkarli, a beach resort near Goa.
We always prefer to have home made lunch consisting of rice, lentils, vegetables and yoghurt.We watch the news or some car show on TV and then it is time for an afternoon nap. It is followed by evening tea and snacks. This is followed by some cleaning and clearing work at home and browsing through some magazines or books, which we may collected during the week before.
Then the evening begins by another stroll in the park to admire the sunset and get refreshed by nature. We return home for our early supper. This is followed generally by a music programme on TV or a sports match like cricket.
We watch the evening news at 9 pm and this is followed by some documentaries or business shows of relevance and then it is time to go to bed. We love to listen to soothing ghazals or instrumental music at night as we go to sleep.
Our day ends at about 1030 pm and we end the day by thanking God and everyone else for a wonderful day.
S Ramesh Shankar