I have lived in India throughout my life. We have a temperate climate throughout the year. It is mostly sunny and temperatures range in the mid thirties centigrade in most parts of the country. We have got used to it and have acclimatised ourselves to this weather. One interesting thing I have noticed is that our eating habits and even our clothing patterns are determined by the weather of the place we live in. This is nature’s way of helping us to adapt to the vagaries of the weather.
Many of us tend to complain when it is very hot during summer. We pray to God to keep the Sun away for a few days. On the other hand when it rains in the monsoon, we eagerly look forward to the rains. The environs are green and we enjoy it for some time. But as the rains persist and our daily life gets paralysed, we pray to God to keep the rains away. Three months of rains and cloudy and murky days make us depressed and we want the Sun to come out again.
It is an interesting cycle of life. We hate the Sun when it is hot and hate the rain when the Sun does not come out. We look forward to the winters to have some fun. But when the temperature dips below zero degrees centrigade in some places we again regret. So, heat, rain or cold is not tolerable, when in excess. This implies that anything in excess is not good for life. The earlier we realise it the better it is for us.
If we look at our eating habits also this axiom would be true. We may like sweets and may enjoy eating them. But if we have excess of sweets, it may be harmful for our health and at a later stage we may end up with diabetes. This is also true for any of our habits and hobbies. Walking is good for health. But at the same if we over stress ourselves by going for endless walks every day we may harm our health more than benefit from it.
This means anything in life in excess may not be good for us. We need to strike the right balance for everything. It does not matter if it is food, hobbies or work. We have to strike a balance between work and home. If we over strain ourselves at work, our relationships at home could get impacted. If we do not work hard and are content in spending more time at home and less focus on our work, our career could get impacted.
Even in life, we need to ensure that we do not go overboard on anything. This means that good life is all about balancing and optimising resources. Excess of anything may be harmful. We wish our kids to put on weight when they are babies. But over weight and obese children may never be the healthiest. It is up to us to draw the line for everything and know when we are crossing it.
In the photo above, the sun was welcome after a long long monsoon in Mumbai.
Life gives us enough opportunities and resources. It is up to to manage it well.
S Ramesh Shankar