I am a born optimist. I always feel our future and the future of our children is bright. We live in an era, where technology is galloping ahead every day. Artificial intelligence is challenging human intelligence every day of our lives.

Let us start with education. The scope of education is limitless today. We have moved much beyond the classical education system. There are multi- disciplinary approaches in every step of the education system.

The schools have multiple approaches to educating a child. The use of technology in education, is enhancing the learning abilities of children. Education is cutting across boundaries of nations and universities. educations institutions are truly turning global, to learn and share their latest research and teaching methods.

If we move to the life of children within homes, it has also developed in a multi dimensional way. Today ,children have access to information and technology ,at their fingertips. They need not walk out of their home, to know the best school across the world ,for any field of education.

Similarly if we take the field of sports, the world is the playground for children. Kids have access ,to the best training and coaches ,across the world. They can learn and train from any part of the world and practise anywhere as per their choice.

If we move to arts, theatre and films, technology has shrunk the time taken to make movies. Today ,kids can learn to make videos and films even on mobile phone and many successful films, have been launched. Access to art museums across the world ,is at the click of a button.

The one area I may be a bit concerned ,is the area of social institutions. The concept of “marriage” and “family” as social institutions ,are breaking down and hence children may not have the social net around them ,to guide and support them in times of crises or need. However, I may be wrong in my assumption and may be other social institutions may take over this role of parents and siblings.

As parents and teachers we need to ensure that children do not become overtly competitive and ambitious, which treads on the sensitive line of human relationships between peers. It is best to compete with oneself rather than with others. We need to inculcate this human value continuously, in our children. This could also result in disappointment where parents and teachers can play a role ,to channelise their ambitions and goals ,in their areas of strength rather than weaknesses, so that they succeed.

The average intelligence of the child today , is multiple fold of the past generations. The learning ability and also the ability to adapt and change ,is also much better than ,what we had experienced in our childhood.

While technology will definitely take us to a brighter tomorrow, we need to guard and ensure ,that the basic human values are instilled on the child. These could be as simple as respect, gratitude, contentment and so on. These values need to instilled by schools and parents, with equal partnership.

We also need to evolve a social and political system in society, which embraces human values and promotes them. If we end up in a highly competitive world ,where human value diminishes, then that may not be the best future for our children.

I see a bright future for our children , and responsibility to create the future ,lies on us. We need to imbibe the best of technology and embed them, with the best of human values, for a happier world tomorrow.

Let us create a future for our children, which is better and happier than what we have today.

S Ramesh Shankar

5th Jan 2024

Life is brittle and fluid. One moment can change our lives. It could be a positive change, which transforms our lives like we never imagined. On the other hand, it could be a life shattering experience and could make us believe that there is no light at the end of the tunnel.

This ephemeral life ,is for all of us. Whether men are born in Mars or women in Venus, I do not know ,but life is the same for all of us. It is up to us ,to take this moment in our stride and manage to deal with it.

A great moment like admission in a great academic institution or the job offer from your dream company ,could change your life forever. However, it is important to believe, that this moment may change your life course ,but the after effects may not last forever.

Imagine getting into the best academic institution in your country. However, if we do not pursue our academic course to the best of our ability and come out in flying colours, we may have nobody else to blame.

The moment which catapulted us into a different space ,may not last our lifetime. If we fail in our academic pursuits and fail in our final exams, we may never get placed in any organisation of repute and this may lead to a moment of despair for us.

The lesson to be learnt here is that, such moments do not last forever. They could come and go and we need to deal with them accordingly. Our getting admission in the best institute of the country may be due to our hard work and perseverance. We get rewarded for our efforts. But then to come out in flying colours at the end of the course ,will be determined by our efforts ,after this moment.

If a moment of joy catapults us to the sky, it could also make us land abruptly afterwards ,if we do not take the necessary follow up efforts as given in the example of admission to the best academic institution.

On the other hand, a moment could impact our life negatively too. We may miss a promotion, when we think we deserve it most and others in the team too think the same way. This moment may shatter our confidence and self belief. However, it is our courage and resilience to deal with such moments, which may bring out the best in us. The greatest of human beings ,learn more from failures than successes.

We need to remember that such life changing moments may happen to us, at different stages of life. But they do not last forever. Our ability to be grounded in moments of joy as well as perseverance and resilience in moments of despair ,may help us to be a winner in life ,always.

These moments occur both in personal and professional lives. It could be a moment of joy ,at the birth of our first child. It could be the moment of tragedy, to lose a parent at a young age. An expected reward/recognition at work will delight us. On the other hand, losing a job during a pandemic or a restructuring of an organisation ,may shatter our hopes.

We need to remember that both joy and sorrow is transitory. If we learn to take both ,in our stride, we can manage both these moments resolutely ,without impacting our lives adversely.

Nothing is permanent ,including a moment in life.

All moments may help us improve and change.

S Ramesh Shankar

7th Dec 2023

All of us have ups and downs in life. We go through crests and troughs and have to own up both of these cycles in our lives. We are delighted when something good happens to us. But, when something unfortunate happens, we are down and out. It is human and there is nothing to feel bad about it.

It may be worthwhile to reflect at this point. Who is responsible for it ? While at the spur of the moment, we may conveniently blame others in our life, in reality the onus of responsibility for our behaviour and actions lies wholly and solely on us, as individuals.

Our past does not determine our future. But our actions determined our past and the same will craft our future. We also need to realise that our behaviour impacts people around us and we are responsible for the same. We are human and may make mistakes. It is important to realise our mistakes and seek forgiveness wholeheartedly and from the bottom of our hearts.

We need to realise that we cannot and will not succeed in this world all alone. We need family, friends and colleagues to succeed in work and in life. So whenever we make mistakes, we need to have the courage to stand up and own them and seek unconditional apology from the people whom we may have adversely impacted.

The sun rises the next day after every sunset everywhere in the world. Similarly, if we go through downs today, there would be ups in the future. This is the cycle of life and nature. We need to live on this hope always.

While we need to live on hope, we also need to take responsibility for all our actions and behaviour in life and at work. If we are willing to change and accept responsibility for our actions, tomorrow will always be better than today.

None of us want to live a life of misery. We would never like to hurt others or make life difficult for our near and dear ones in life. But if by any chance we do either, we need to stand up and own responsibility for our behaviour and actions.

“To err is human, to forgive divine” goes the saying. We need to learn to forget and forgive each other in such situations and move on in life. Forgiveness is Godliness. It may be difficult to forget and forgive others. But, if we have the courage to do it, we will discover the humanness in us.

I am a born optimist in life. I have always believed that the future is going to be better than the past. But we need to create the future of our choice by our own actions and behaviours in life.

The future will not dawn on us from the sky. We shape our future by our own actions. Let not the dark days of the past worry us too much as we need to live on hope and believe that the sunshine of tomorrow will wipe away all the tears from our past lives.

Let the journey begin today.

S Ramesh Shankar

5th Dec 2023