I have seen people spending their lifetime in search of peace and happiness. The interesting aspect is that the more they search – both peace and happiness is elusive to them.

The questions before us – Where do we search for peace ? How do we search for peace ? How can we be sure that we have accomplished it ? When will we be happy that we are at peace ?

The answers to these questions may help us understand this basic tenet of life. I know of people going around the world searching for peace and happiness. If they stay in a city and lead an urban life full of stress, they assume visiting a hill and listening to the sounds of nature may help them get peace and happiness.

Each of us have our own way of exploring our journey. Some of us want to run away from our problems. While others think that we are the only ones beseeched with all problems in the world. Some others think they are cursed in life and hence peace and happiness will always elude them in this birth.

In my definition, both peace and happiness is absolute and personal to each one of us. We can spend our life time searching around the world or blaming others for our state of affairs but we may never attain peace or happiness.

The day we realise that peace and happiness is within us and also within our own control, we may be in a position to pursue this journey. It is like , advising everyone in the world is the easiest thing to do but advising self may be the most difficult.

If we live our lives comparing ourselves to everyone around us and blaming the world and everyone for our state of affairs we may be in a state of denial. On the other hand, if we realise that our destiny is in our own hands, we may be able to begin our journey of self exploration.

The journey of self exploration is like the path of excellence. It is a continual journey of self discovery. If we believe we have reached our destination, we may be fooling our selves. On the other hand, if we continue to look within and pursue this journey, we may be on the right track.

What gives us happiness and peace is unique to each one of us ? If we compare ourselves with others, we may never be able to achieve our goal. We need to be clear as to what will give us peace and happiness in life and pursue our goals zealously.

Each of us will have a different take or definition of peace and happiness and that is fine. The day we worry about the definition of others , our trouble may begin. As long as we are content with our own concepts, our journey will always be enriching.

The path to peace is perseverance. If we are able to look within and reflect, we may be able to rediscover ourselves every day. This journey could be insightful if we are willing to learn and grow with every learning in life.

Let our journey begin today.

S Ramesh Shankar

22nd March 2022