Is our life ruled by position or possession only ? Lets explore. We can examine this hypothesis from three different lenses and the answer seems to be similar. Let us first examine it from the lens of the family. We may be born in a middle class family in a small village. Our status in the society where we are born is determined by the position held by our family members in the society around us. In the olden days, your caste determinedyour status in society. After all caste is also a social position class.
Now if we look within the family social structure, the story is not very different. The power structure is determined by the position you hold in the family tree. An elder in the family whether parents or grandparents can never be wrong as compared to their children in any situation. At least this is the way we are brought up. I respect elders in the family but there is a possibility that in some situations our children may be right and we may be wrong. But, we generally will be in a denial mode unless we are magnanimous in our attitude.
We can then move to the lens of organisation. The hierarchy determines the power structure in organisations. The higher you are in the hierarchy the less you can be wrong in any situation. Thus position determines power and thereby influences all decisions in the organisation. The situation is no different if you examine this from the lens of society. The public figures who hold positions of power determine the direction the society has to move and those who are powerless are less influential in society.
Now, lets examine as to why we are possessive by nature. We all are born into this world with no possessions and when we leave this world we can carry no possessions. But in between these two events in our life, we spend most of our time accullumating possessions. As a kid, we want all the games and gadgets in the family or in the circle of friends we have. Then as an individual as we grow up, we want to maximise our material wealth at any cost most of the times. We do not have time to sit and listen to our family or friends in distress.
If we move to the organisational context, the situation is similar. Most organisations work at maximising shareholders’ wealth at any cost. They want to increase profits at the cost of society if needed. Very few organisations look at what they can give back to society unless the governments statutorily compel them to do so. This again proves that as individuals and organisations we are possessive by nature and we want to maximise at the cost of society in most situations.
I sometimes wonder ” why we are crazy after positions or possessions in life ?”. Is it a physical or psychological need ? I am not sure. But, I do realize that the root cause of conflicts in family , organisations and society is the craving for positions or possessions in their life time. This is amply clear if we introspect or objectively look at organisations and societies around us. As in the photo above, the position we hold and the assets we possess may give us a sense of power. It is up to us to ensure that we remain grounded always with our feet firmly on the ground.
It is time to reflect. There is nothing wrong to yearn for a position or assimilatepossessions in life. But, as long as we are able to restrict them to fulfil our needs rather than greed, it is fine. We also need to learn to give back to society. The day we have this realisation, we wake up and feel actualised in life. It is never too late to make this distinction.
Let us try to start today
S Ramesh Shankar