I have always been fascinated at the way birds fly high in the sky. I used to envy them and think how lucky they are. One day I was wondering what the birds would be thinking of us as human beings on earth. While I envied the birds for flying fearlessly, they may be envying us for enjoying ourselves walking around on the ground. We believe the birds have all the freedom in the world and they do not need to stay at a permanent place.
On the other hand, the birds may wonder how lucky human beings are that have a permanent place to stay. Birds have to keep flying endlessly till they are tired and have to find a place every day to rest at night. They have to earn their food by flying around trees or other places and may be lucky some day and not on other days. We are so lucky we have a home to stay and get food served on our plates every day.
This phenomenon teaches us an important lesson in life. We tend to compare ourselves with others and feel jealous. Further, we think others do not suffer as much as we do. We feel we are always face the most difficult situations while other rejoice. We never realise that others may be in similar situations like us or may be even worse than us. It is like me envying the birds in the sky till I wondered one day what the birds would think of me.
Life is a journey and has its ups and downs. All of us have days of joy and moments of sorrow. It may be worthwhile to admire others and learn from their goodness. It may not be worth the while to envy others and die out of comparison. If we need to compare anyone, it could be ourselves. We can always be grateful to God for all the joyous moments he gave us when we face some miseries.
It is the attitude of self reflections and learning, which may make us better human beings. Each living being is created by God and have their own pluses and minuses. It is up to us to look at the positive of others and learn from them. Jealousy can only make us move backward in life. It is worthwhile to fly high in the sky like the birds and dream big. It may be useful to leave the bad moments of one’s life behind like the birds leave their nest behind when they migrate.
It is up to us to be free and enjoy life like the flying birds. If we learn from them, we benefit. If we compare ourselves with them and feel bad, we lose. Let us learn to learn not only from other human beings around us but from birds and animals, which have enough to teach us.
Today can be a new beginning.
S Ramesh Shankar