There are many things in life, which can never be described. How do we describe the beauty of nature ? How do we explain the colours of the sky during a sunset ? What shades of green can be explained in an ever green forest ? There are such and similiar situations, where words cannot explain a scene. I would call them the indescribable moments of life.
I have experienced many moments in life, which are indescribable. The first and foremost in my mind is the spectacle of nature from morning to night. Every day when I get up and look at the sunrise and the cloud formation, it is a new picture and changes every second. There have been days when my wife or me have seen a beautiful skyline at dawn and called upon our partner to have a look and it has disappeared or changed within seconds.
Life is no different. We go through ups and downs in life and every moment is precious. There are moments of joy, when words cannot express our feelings. We may not be able to share our joy with others or express it ourselves. It may be an inner feeling of happiness and contentment, which is to be experienced to be believed. It happens to me in moments of solitude. It could be a lonely temple or a monastery in a forest. There is no human being or animal around you but you feel one with nature and this moment can never be described or shared with anyone at that moment.
The situation is similar when we are sad. It could be a day when you are remembering your parents, who left you on earth decades back. You recall life’s greatest lesson taught by them and feel their vacuum in your life. This feeling of inertness cannot be expressed to anyone in words or emotions. You cry to yourself and sometimes even without shedding a tear from your eyes. No force on earth can console you during these moments and your tears appear to dry up even before they roll down your eyes.
At work too you have moments, which are not describable to any one. You feel you are competent to deal with a situation and take on a project based on your likes. But as you go through the project there are days of despair when you feel helpless and lonely. You do not feel like sharing this feeling or emotion with anyone around you lest you are misunderstood by anyone.
Even within your family and home, there are moments when you do not want to share your emotions with anyone lest you hurt them. You may have had a bad day at work but you believe your family members should not bear the burden of your work pressures and hence you hide your feelings. These moments are equally difficult to describe for anyone who is going through them in reality.
So life has moments of joy and sorrow. We find it easy to describe some of these moments. However, there are other moments when words cannot express what we go through. We neither can share through words nor through emotions what we actually go through. It is these moments we need to learn to deal with ourselves so that we spring back to balance life our own way.
How can we describe the formation of the clouds and the colour of the skyline during a beautiful sunset on any day as in the photo above?
Let us learn to live with life the way it is rather than the way we want it to be always.
S Ramesh Shankar